Some of us do choose to make friends with one another, yes. Others are still bemoaning their fate even still today. I'm not sure which category I yet fall into, given my lingering connections with the realm of the living.

...That is what I have been afraid of for going on 15 years now. In the beginning, it was for his own good. If he had found out that his twin brother was a ghost...
I was only trying to protect him.